By Our Special Correspondent
Guwahati (Assam), Feb 11 : In the picturesque villages of Assam, particularly in the districts of Jorhat, Sivasagar, and Dibrugarh, a unique tradition has been an integral part of the state’s cultural heritage for centuries. Tuloni Biya, or ceremonial marriage of a child on attaining menstrual periods, holds immense significance in Assamese society. This practice not only celebrates a girl’s transition to womanhood but also reinforces the state’s progressive values.
As Assamese writer and scholar, Mitra Phukan, notes, “Tuloni Biya is a celebration of the girl child, acknowledging her growth and development. It’s a beautiful tradition that strengthens family bonds and reinforces community ties.”
Unlike many other Indian states, Assam has a distinctive approach to marriage, where the bridegroom’s family bears all the expenses. This practice, combined with Tuloni Biya, underscores the state’s commitment to gender equality and female empowerment.
Dr. Naren Kalita, a renowned Assamese scholar, emphasizes, “Tuloni Biya is an essential part of our cultural identity. It symbolizes the respect and dignity accorded to women in Assamese society.”
However, with the passage of time, this system is slowly fading away. Urbanization, modernization, and the influence of Western culture have led to a decline in the practice of Tuloni Biya. Many young Assamese women now view this tradition as outdated and unnecessary.
As Phukan laments, “It’s sad to see our youth abandoning their cultural roots. Tuloni Biya is not just a tradition, but a celebration of our heritage.”
Efforts are being made by cultural organizations and community leaders to preserve and promote this tradition. However, it remains to be seen whether these efforts will be enough to save Tuloni Biya from extinction.
As we move forward, it’s essential to recognize the significance of Tuloni Biya and work towards preserving this valuable tradition for future generations.
